Both people will split the costs of dinner and any other activities chosen to do on the date.
Most were attractive and looking for fun (below, I show there usernames and actual emails.) so, naturally, I replyed and a few days later they replyed. Then I contacted one or two with my concern for the site. You understand, acknowledge, and agree that the information, text, and pictures contained in the OC's profiles do not pertain to any actual person, but are included for entertainment purposes only.
This is common with women who are liberal or independent in their thinking.
It is also common if funds are low for both parties.
In addition, many women understand the expenses associated with dating and don’t believe it is fair that they guy should pay for everything, especially if the two go to an expensive restaurant and do something even more expensive later.
Dutch dating is common for people who are not comfortable with someone else spending money on them.