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Soon after he started dating a Swiss, Frenchman Martin* realized he was expected to keep his distance.“She would suggest meeting up only every two weeks, even though we didn’t live far from each other,” he says.Take German expat Lena*, a leggy blonde: she noticed that since moving to Zurich, she has not been hit on much in bars.“I mainly get approached by Spanish guys,” she admits, adding that she thinks Swiss men must be too arrogant or too scared to speak to women.
The romantic notions that occupy the mind of young people often have proven in most cases to be unrealistic and harmful to those involved.
“And do not lie about the fact you are going on different dates.
Tell your date you have just started dating and have committed to give yourself at least three months before entering a new relationship.
“I advise men to pay on a first date,” says ‘flirt coach’ Thomas Peter, who runs how-to courses in flirting in Zurich or by telephone or email.
“Later on couples usually want to split the costs – especially older couples," he says, adding that surprisingly "Among young people there is still a tendency for girls to expect their date to pay.” Blending commitment and independence is expected…