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Having said that, successful communication with this personality type does require some amount of ego massaging. For example, instead of telling your narcissistic partner he needs to go with you to a friend's party because you don't want to go alone, say something like "My friend really misses you and would love to see you." If you're already in a close relationship with a narcissist, this technique is the best way to get what you want from him.
I just really cannot see myself traditionally “dating” again.
Turn to others for compassion and support; you're highly unlikely to receive this from the narcissist, says author and relationships expert Melanie Tonia Evans.
Forget bending over backward to make a narcissist happy -- you're wasting your time.
Sure you want to see him but do you want to be sitting home waiting for him forever more? In the beginning we want to be so agreeable and easy going but it can bite you in the ass later because he is on his best behavior also and if leaving you sitting until the last minute is his best behavior just wait until he gets to know you.
REspect yourself and do not accept anything less than total respect. Reply Great, sensible advice Kim which I plan to ‘favourite’ for when I’m ready to get back in the water. That’s kinda where I’m at right now – I am who I am and I won’t pretend otherwise. I’m dipping my toe into the dating pool and wary of piranhas. You know, it wasn’t just the abuse from the abuser…it’s the life-long conditioning that made many of us so insecure, we stayed in the abusive relationship for too long… In my case, Generational patterns of codependency and domestic violence…I am determined to break the cycle by working on everything within my power!
If the guy can’t handle it or doesn;t like the friends then you best be taking another long look at the guy because if he doesn’t like your friend there is a veyr good chance he is not going to like you down the road.
AND…………if he doesn’t care enough to make sure he calls in plenty of time for a date and you have plans, stick to your plans, otherwise he will think he can snap his fingers and you’ll come running.
If there is someone in your life with a narcissistic personality, knowing how to deal with her will make your relationship a whole lot easier.
Wear a silk scarf when you get your head down and it will help to stop your hair getting into too much of a mess and, use a neck support, which will keep your head off of the seat back and stop the hair flattening down. Take antibacterial hand wipes with you Antibacterial wipes are a must on a flight.
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Forget about the normal rules of love or friendship when dealing with a narcissist.
Whether it's a spouse, friend, relative or colleague, the narcissist has the ability to drain your energy, make you doubt your own integrity and zap your self-confidence if you don't know how to deal with her.