Dating 2 men at once
We're all looking for love: the big kind, the one that will change the world as we know it. The two of them are so different, but both have qualities that spark your interest.We spend so much of our time waiting, searching, and going through the motions of dating until we find what we're looking for. One of them may have the best sense of humor; the other may be incredibly witty and smart. I'll know when my heart tells me which one of these guys is the right one.One may have the best butt; the other may have an impressive beard. When you're seeing two guys at the same time, they're rarely similar.“And put your phone away, so it doesn’t appear you’re ready to confirm another date before dessert is served.”The dating game should end when you’re ready to be exclusive with someone, Spira says.You should avoid logging onto dating apps or browsing other potentials after making this decision.“If the relationship doesn’t work out, you can always reactivate your profile again. The situation feels hopeless until, suddenly, you're on a great first date, and that turns into a second. But you keep your options open; you commit to a date with someone else ... This hardly seems fair to you -- and to the two men you're seeing.
So if you don’t want your men finding out about each other, try not to broadcast it to the whole world. Inviting them both upstairs is a recipe for Jeremy Kyle type disaster.Best-case scenario: It happens when you're out and about.You can backtrack immediately and do serious damage control: “What?Oh, I guess I called you John because my best friend John just texted me. It is straight-up exhausting to date two people at once. It's a little voice whispering, “You need to pick one. They're going to find out.”You try to picture life with just one boy, but you can't. You find yourself making up all kinds of ridiculous fabrications to keep both the guys separated from each other.Haha.”Worse-case scenario: It's while you're having sex. I mean, it's hard enough to make the time to see one person, let alone two. The guy you're with at any given moment will be the one you like the most. One boyfriend thinks you were with your sister last night, so you fabricate anecdotes from your evening together and warn your sister in case he asks. If you don't come to a decision (AND QUICKLY), both relationships will get destroyed. Right, you wouldn't have been so conflicted in the first place.