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Whether you want to believe it or not, there are plenty of healthy BPD relationships. This is why you see so many problems in the world today. I have over ten years of experience dating highly emotional women. But, you never hear about them because they’re too busy enjoying themselves. This is because people turn to internet forums when they’re struggling. For the inexperienced man, BPD relationships are complicated. We are safer and healthier than any other time in history. The whole entire point of changing your mindsets is this: Poor mindsets lead to a lack of mental and emotional control. One of my favorite quotes is this: “A woman gives you shit to make sure you the shit.” How will you react? So, I suggest you do some research and get some advice from someone like Rick next time you find yourself in a relationship with someone who has BPD” – Carrie === Let that email be an inspiration for you. You’ll find yourself chasing her and guilt-tripping her if you don’t. She gave you many hints of the mindsets you need to make a BPD relationship work. The word ‘BPD’ has so many negative words associated with it. Respect and trust are the foundations of any healthy relationship. He is a loving, strong, ‘alpha male’, who is actually mature enough to take advice from sites and books like these and put them into use. It’s very rare to see a man successfuly date a quality woman. She told me how it was an extremely toxic relationship. So why the hell did she stay with a douchebag for 5 years? Most guys are making crucial errors that push the girl away even further.I’m sure you’ve seen these thrown all over the web. However, because women are like cats, she will come and go as she pleases. Most people with poor mindsets become needy and insecure when a woman pulls away. We may be labeled as ‘troubled’ or ‘crazy’ but that does not at all mean we can’t have healthy relationships. You have to mentally see what they see, read between the lines. I hope you can see why you’re drawn to the honeymoon period. You love the feeling of being close and affectionate. You think you’re doing the right thing, but it always blows up in your face.Immature, inexperienced men will blame their BPD girlfriend for everything. Instead of looking within, it’s easy to place blame on others.
My relationship history is full of attractive BPD women. But, I made it out alive and have managed to remain amazing friends with many women who (most likely) have BPD.
For now, suffice it to say that you need to be aware of it, what it can do, and how it can affect you.
If you were in a full blown borderline relationship, you probably have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.
But real, actual love and compatibility is impossible without strong, independent mindsets. This is why the BPD label doesn’t matter at the end of the day. Understanding this fact is all you need to be successful. When she pulls away, she wants to see how you’ll react. But, this week she doesn’t have those same feelings for whatever reason.
Now I’m not going to sit here and say that you’re 100% responsible for your relationship not working. However, understand that you are 100% responsible for yourself. The attitude you see all around you is to point fingers and blame others. This is why a healthy, fulfilling relationship is a rare sight. Therefore, I focus on teaching the mindsets that are best for BPD relationships. This is true even if she doesn’t know it on a subconscious level.