Being too eager in dating
MORE: He Lost His Job and Wants to Break Up TYPE 4: The tortured artist (or hipster-ish dude) This guy is the hardest to read and the most likely to go from hot to cold with no warning and often no reason (and if there is a reason it will most likely be the most absurd one you’ve ever heard, ex: you texted him back 15 minutes after he texted you thus indicating you are way too interested in him).Show too much interest and he’ll be scared away, show not enough interest and he’ll be too afraid to make any moves, show just the right amount of interest and he’ll get bored.If he isn’t getting out of a relationship, then it’s very likely his strong affections are a sign of some kind of attachment issues or self-esteem problems. If you’re in the early stages of dating, try not to see him more than 2-3 times a week.If he’s a too intimate too soon kind of guy he’s going to try to see you more frequently, say no!
If he pouts, whines, guilts you, begs, then there’s something going on. TYPE 2: The guy who says he doesn’t want a relationship right off the bat (or won’t call you his girlfriend when it comes to poop or get off the pot time) It really just means he can’t see himself being in a relationship with .
Don’t stick around and try to prove him wrong, it’s a losing battle.
If you’re already dating him: Tell him something like “Look, I’m not into doing the casual, undefined thing.
When a man feels like he isn’t contributing or being productive, he will feel like a failure.
And a man who feels like a failure is an extremely tough creature to deal with.